My lord did answer my prayer ... but now it come in other form .
Many told me , you have to be specify on what you want ... totally in detail .
Was praying this " black cloud" to be disappear as soon as possible ... well it does disappear but here come another asshole.
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| Message i received on my Facebook messenger |
I covered the profile photo of the SPY and name of my friend for privacy reason... the reason is this is my blog not others .. i rather talk about myself then gossiping about others life ...
ok as for those who are following my blog know what's going on recently ...
1st was 3rd wheel , then 4th..... now messenger ..(ref to dialog from picture) ...
I am not a person that will judge even i know my friends are having affair .. i would not tell the wife , or the husband.
As a friend , when some one come to me and share their problem is always my pleasure . Mean i am a trust able person in their eyes.
I am not a psychologies, or relation consultant ,.... but i definitely is a good listener , most of the times ppl who are in trouble are not looking for solution but just some one to listen to them .
Of cause i will try my best to advise them to go back on the "right track" . But that is there choice ...
Maybe a lot will scold me and blam what i am doing is wrong ....or do the same act as THE SPY.
Well , that's my personal option , i HAVE ALL MY RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHAT I PREFER.
In my point of view , THE SPY are not helping at all .
What can you do by telling the person the true ?
Ref to the case above , she will 1st sure felt sad .
Are you happy to see her sad ?
What do you get if she is sad ?
If your intention is not to see her sad , but would like to see the husband leave the affair or the affair to leave the relation .
Then you should be discussing about it to the husband/ the affair and not doing shit to the wife .
I saw many affairs before but i never tell one.
Cause i know it will not help any parties ..but create pain...
I am sad to say in Malaysia not all women are independent yet , some of the women get married after "school" give birth .. they dont have working experiences , there is no chance for them to live in this city by them self .
By telling them the husband is having affair. What can they do?
Cry .... but cant leave ... close the eyes but sad in the heart ?
What would you get after , Mr SPY ?
I work for a Dato' ... i know many started to think i am one of the open leg ... well think as you like , i know who am i.
So come back to my job , i went to night clubs pretty often . Not all night club party mean dirty .
Not all night clubs party = Sex
Anyway i was mistaken as party girl or on job girl too before ...
Hell yah .... i dont give a damn on what ppl think and say, i live my life ...after years most of the clubs mama/papa sang/staffs all knows i am not part of the "meat seller".
Many rich ppl / business man just like to have privacy ... and only like to
hang around with ppl they know . And my boss is one of them. He prefer
to have gathering in private.
You can make up any stories about me but that's never will bring me down.
出泥不沾
no matter what is the situation given ...it will never be the excuse for you to grow "spoil"
A lotus can grow from mud , So do you !
Mother nature already gave a prove.
To be continue ...
i am not a professional writer , there must sure have error of typing , spelling , grammar.... so pleadse forgive me ... this is a page of my personal feeling . I just write it like dairy .
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