Wednesday, May 22, 2013

3rd /4th wheel

Recently there is a black cloud on top of my head ... No matter how ... It just don't go away .



4 months ago before my long holiday started ... Make the story short and simple ...

One of my friend of benefit contacted with me after long ... Anyway I was the one that's end it ...but we end it in peace ... Super peace ... We never meet after, I knew that he moved on ... He's married with a lovely girl , I am really happy for him ... And times fly ...

The very 1st sentences he sent to me is I am divorce. He started to contact with me because there is some problem in their relationship ... I don't know about details ....

Well as a friend I do advice him to re think after cold down ... 

Btw he is in need of money too .... So I intro him a freelance job project basis...

Honestly beside normal friend conversation and project ,i never have other topics / meet him in person.

After some time , (less then a month) there comes the problem , the wife of my friend with benefit called ... I have a bad habit , I do not answer call from unknowns ...non stop ,a lot of calls ... there come the SMS ...once I received the SMS I know who is on the line . 

The wife think I am the one that make the husband want to divorce with her . I have no idea how can and what I did .
With the name of my lord , I did not do anything to their relationship . Out of no where I suddenly become 3rd wheel of their relation . 

I replied : I have nothing with him but the wife seem not satisfy with my reply and keep on troubling me ... The only thing I do is ignore . 

Is not I am afraid or whatever ... I choose to ignore because 1.I have no intention to talk with mad women . 2. There is no point to talk with some one that think only from their shoe . 3. I stated my position very clear , i do not see the point to make further explanation to some one that choose not to believe me . 4. I have no interest to deal with a women that know only to blame . When your relation doesn't work you have to think why ? Not blame others ... Some more I believe I am way old old old stories. 

Some time I really don't know why women like to lie to them self. 

Why never think why A man choose to contact / keep in touch with his x fb ? 
Even he knows you will not be happy but still he chooses to keep in touch , why ? 
And how much you think he love you ?

Think also if your relation is strong who can separate you both apart ?  If it is not as strong as you think , is it worth for you to WASTE the rest of your life ? 

From the point of women why I would have to leave the relation If I do like him ? And come back to him after he is married ? Just because I love to share ?
Ok lets say I really did come back to seduce him ... How much your husband love you ? When he accept "me" ... 
Honestly I am not interested to share man with another women , I do worry he have insufficient sperms for me lol . 

And I cant understand why women want to give shit to another women because of a cheap man? I don't .

For me ... Lets say I really got your man ... Today he leave ur bed for me ... Tomorrow he would leave my bed for another ... Why have to hurt another women for a man that not worth ? 


And darling , I am not god ! It is not my fault if your husband cant move on or chooses to "keep" me in him mind . I can't control others mind and feeling .... 

And finally my 4 months holiday started ... Off my local phone and traveled ...so I though the stories end ... But there goes the email ... I keep on ignore and finally she stop texting me ... ;) 




Well don't you think that's the end ?? Nope ... After back from holidays ... Another stories began .... 

This time more funny ... I am the 4th wheels lol ...

To be continue ...... 







  


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