Thursday, August 22, 2013

Sakyant Rules

This is the continue of write up of the sakyant . 

I heard many enough : you cant do this after sakyant that ..many rules . 

I would like to make it simple . 1st there is different type of amulets , some is the YIN , some is the YANG.
Same as Sakyant .

Mostly for those who want "out come" fast they will go for YIN amulet / worship YIN "God" / YIN spirits. 

Even temples , there is Yin & Yang temples , please do not worship simply any unknow "god" . 
Make sure you aware.

I personally disagree to worship YIN spirits.

Therefore i get my Sak Yant in Temple. 
Done by a Monk , in yellow/orange robe. - Lung Pi Nunn.

Some master will told they devotee after sakyant there is rules to follow if you don't your spell will be gone. 
I would not say it is bullshit about those rules , is better you ask your master . And if you do doubt with him and don't want to follow what he say .Then better you don't carry one ,unless you take it as a piece of art . If you choose to carry one of his/her piece then please follow.

In my previous blog , already mention clearly , please look for the proper Monks / Masters. Please make sure you know what are you getting.

PS: below is all based my understand . 

Again back to dhama teaching : I believe no matter what protection the highest power give it to you , you will not be protected still if you use it for evil act. 

And even you don't have a sakyant/ religion but you are being a good person in your entire life , you will be protected, and going to heaven after, or any place you believe is better.

So personally i don't believe in those rules .
Some told me i cant eat starfruit after Sakyant , really sorry to say this is ridicules ! I can not think of any reason why my lord have to stop loving me just because I ate a starfruit.

What happened i kill million and never ate starfruit , do you think i will be protected ?  After all i did not broke the rule right ?

Some told me i can not have sex after Sakyant, cause your guardian is watching over you. Is so disrespectful to have sex infront of your guardian.
They recommend me to carry an amulet ( well i do have one anyway) so i ask back how you do with your amulet when you want to have sex . They say keep in out of your room/ cover it with a black /red cloth.
Maybe i am wrong ...
To me, guardian see what he/she want to see, his/her vision is not block by a door /a wall.
If so then i just need to kill someone in the condition of "hiding" , Karma shall not find me. To me this is very childish , just like they believe their guardian have the power to help them granted their wishes but do not have the power to see thus a door /wall .

Some told me i cant carry along my amulet in to toilet , cause toilet consider dirty and it is the place of lot of "unfriendly spirit".
So said : cant go under women wear ... especially those cloth drying outside. 
Many many ridicules rules ... but i don't believe any.  

Lung Pi Nunn did not told me there is any rules to follow.
And i can say there is no rules if you are getting your from a Monk .

Again come back to the teaching, there is no rules but recommendation.
it is recommendation to keep 5 precepts especially those who have sakyant.
BTW , not as any other religion , at the end of your day , My lord will not judge you , but you will have to pay your karma .

When others ask me about Karma i will always express it as bank .
Take it as a bank ... when you do good ... = putting credit in to bank and after years + interest ... you got reward /return .

If you do bad .. = loan from bank ...years + interest ... when the time arrive ... pay your ass off.

Doing good will not stop the bad karma coming after you , but doing good will help to release /minimize the damage .
Example someone will will be helping / be by your side and pass/conquer "the dark moment" together .     
The reason I take sakyant only i know why , and not convenience for me to review here.
Well i has been taking my 5 precepts for years but not a strong believer, after years , i started to hold more tight .

 Here is the reference for 5 precepts :http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_Precepts

And now i am carrying one Ha Taew, not to make myself immortal , bulletproof, bla bla bla but just to remind myself to keep my 5 precepts.
I am a Buddhism , and I am Theravada, I believe the best "protection"  is self help.
If you are doing good you are very close to the LIGHT .
 With the light , nothing evil can come close.  

Getting a Sakyant is just like getting an eyes watching over you , she/he will take note on all single good and bad things you do. So I will think twice before i want to commit in evil though :) because i know i am watched . If i know that's evil still i choose to commit, then I deserve to be "punish" /receive heavier karma.

Out there , there is many rumors , some say when you are dying , or older age you will suffer a lot , more then others .
Honestly those rumors just broke without the need to answer.
If i has been doing good in my life , why karma have to aftering me ?
why would karma make you suffer ? 

to be continue  



Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Coffin Temple

Went to BKK for sakyant . In some of the day me and my BFF we decide to pay visit to The Famous Coffin Temple in BKK. 

I love the idea of the foundation . In Chinese culture in very big deal to not own a coffin when you pass away . And in Thailand there is many poor . They do not afford to buy coffin. Also there is unknown, they live on the street , they have no family , seem they are invisible , they pass away one day out of sudden ..... mostly pass away due to accident .....no one come and claim their body ...They body are not burial ....  and Thai believe this will make their soul unrest. So this disorganization will do their part , burial the body and give blessing. Also to those poor family they can inform the temple if they are in need of coffin. 

Always the early bird . 

Breakfast alone . 
But honestly i am not afraid to be alone , and i enjoy a lot the peace . 

 
My soduku , and is very windy outside . I do not practice meditation , no other reason just because i don't have a calm mind. But i practice mindful. 

Is very noisy indoor, with a " china tour " so you can imagine the situation.
Watching the movement of those leaves . 

Disturbed by an aunty ...she would like to share my table ....ok why not ? Singaporean , very nice lady , we started to have conversation , again another mom that worry too much over the son. 
 
And the times fly ... 
Finally BFF awake ... and all ready to go . 

So here we are . 

No gonna write in detail about this place ... is just too famous not to be found LOL 
just google it : Thailand coffin temple ... I guess million of write up available for your reference . 


Along the way there is many street food . I love Thai food not only because it taste good , it is with chili ( those who know me , know i cant have my meal without chili . ) Also because it is full with color . 



One coffin only cost 500B ... years never increase price . 
Of cause you can donate 2000 or any amount too , as you wish. 


 
 
You know we are do good, but yet again here come some stupid. 
She said the reason i am doing the charity is because i want to take over 50 % of "his' balance luck. 

In rumors, make the stories short :-
A pass away .
B donated coffin 
So in order to reward the donator B , A must give 50% of his/her leave over "good karma"( good fruit) to the donator and the other 50% will be given to his/her next next next generation . 
So it is consider as greedy act.  

I personally don't believe the rumors. 
To me how much "Luck" this person would have when he/she have no family ? No one care about him/her? She/ He hungry / cold / sick / happy / sad ....Not shower by love.
 I do not believe a person with supported with good karma will end up in this situation. 


If karma is real.
What is the meaning to do good , when you will end up in this after all ? Your good fruit ain't helping. Since his good fruit cant help him, do you think his 50% will help you go somewhere ?

If karma is real . 
One person already in that bad luck , just pay "his debt with his life' , and now wanted to rest the soul , and yet hopeless , nothing can be done but just wait for some good person come and make donation /offer to help him to rest his soul. Do you think this person still have "candy" in his pocket to share with you ? 50 % 50%. 

I don't think so.    


In my life , I learned and know, no matter what you are doing there is always someone there to point at you , you do bad they talk cock , you do good still they will find a way to talk cock about you. So mote it be.
I think they are just another servant of the evil.
 

 


The pink "receipt" - paste on the coffin . 
The one with lot of background print - burn it in front of the god statue. For those who know to tranfer merit can transfer merit to your desire persons .
 
I am always in luck . 
When the time we visit, the temple is in need of gold plate for making a Buddha statue. 
I lost count but a lot of times , when i pay visit to temple , always given opportunity to make offer to help building statue.


But here 1st time in life, so cheap ! one plate one 10B, it is less then RM1 per plate . 
I am not sure neither where this culture from , i been to sri lanka's temples , Thai temples they all do have this culture , all of the statue is empty in middle , and fill up with gold plated , jewelery , and expensive goods really really depend on the offering. 


Make my offering on behalf of my love one. 


I love the glue ... it remind me my schooling time ... i use to remember my mom is a super savvy women , she will cook glue for my art work , cut and paste , handicraft .
This type of glue can no longer seen in town . 


Yah , the typical Chinese ! I am not pure Chinese , but i do love some of the Chinese culture- (not all only some LOL )
There is a bamboo stick in front of 虎爷爷
sorry forget to snap photos .... borrow from google . 
 

What a great stick ;) yahoo !!! Yahoo !!

Oh btw i did not light up any incenses in the temple. But i did give my respect. 

To me this is a wonderful charity , yes one coffin cost 500B to me is nothing , but maybe is a lot to others , if you are interested to make donation , you can share with friends and in this temple there is donation box , you can always leave your money in the donation box . Any amount will do. 

Always :- from your happy heart .



Sak yant ha taew by Lung Pi Nunn

So the world know i am carrying a sakyant now (lol been posting on FB regular lol ) 

So my sakyant is a Ha Thaew (Thai: ห้าแถว translation: five rows) - one of the most common Yantra designs for women in Thailand but also used for men. Typically tattooed on the back left shoulder. Each of the five lines relates to a different blessing for success and good luck.

Me and my BFF we both got Ha Thaew , each Ha Thaew is very personal, different wording, different sizes, different position , there is "no rules" such like women carry it on left , man on right , size this big = more powerful , smaller =less powerful .....don't listen to all those bullshit .   

Once you enter the room (the waiting hall ) The monk that going to perform sakyant for you will sense/ see your aura. Some say they read your mind. This have to depends on his practice.  

They will know what you need the most and what is the best for you. Don't start to think my is smaller , the protection is smaller ... a master told me before if that so you better be happy , cause you are not a person in trouble , nothing is against you , or you are a good person already protected by unseen guardians, why would you still need protection from a " spell " from a " human "?

Everyone has their own Aura , if your aura is clear and bright automatically you are protected, no evil can harm or come even close to you. This is the best protection ( I don't know about other religion i am talking based on Buddhism) 

Many of my friend some ask me many questions, some throw me "cold water"...whatever , i know clearly why i am getting a sakyant ....maybe more in future ...but at the moment i am only carrying one . 

I know a lot will ask : 
1) Pain ah ?
Yes is pain ! Mine is very pain especially the 1st few stick, cause the needle landed on my scapula ( i call the wing) 

 
2) Is it safe ?
NOPE ! No new needle , there is few type of needle . But there is no record of ppl get HIV or desease  from Sakyant at Thailand. 

3) Can i request a new needle ? Why
No, Because sakyant is like making a piece of fine art , the craftsman needed his tools , the tools he is families with. 

4) What's the ingredient of the INK ?
Again it was prepared very personal by the monk. Just like mom recipe.
There is 2 choice , one is ink , one is invisible. You can tell master what you prefer.

5) How much it cost ?
There is many charges ... i did mine at Wat Bang Phra.
Only cost me 75B for an offering.

 
Below is all based on my personal experience and understanding.

Lot asked me , after sakyant you cant drink , smoke , fuck , this that lot of rules bla bla bla ...

1st I have something to make clear with :-

1st if you are not Buddhist/ dont follow 5 precepts is better you don't carry any.
Dont misunderstood me , my lord protect anyone , and everyone ,even you are not his follower.
  Then why i say so , is no point to carry a sakyant and at the other hand you disobey his teaching .
Example : I go an get a Sakyant and i go rob the bank / kill, do you think my lord / any guardian /angel will protect you ?

2nd Sakyant will not make you immortal, make you bulletproof . Yes , there is legend King Jayavarman VII, tested this out with his own body, he bounced all arrow off his chest in war .. and there is stories of undefinable solider.

1st It is legend ! 2nd how can you be sure it is the credits of sakyant and not others source ? Maybe is witch craft ? Or science.... Also heard stories of some dude get sakyant then robe the bank and police cant not catch them cause they are bulletproof , some got into accident , but the coroner can not "operate" with knifes , cause he/she wear a sakyant .... have you seen with your own eyes ? I haven't but min i know i am having a sakyant and i still bleed if you poke me with knife :)   



Nice ? 1st day to be honest with you i dont like how it look LOL but after a day i started to like it very much. 

Tattoo is consider as art now . But sakyant is not just an tattoo . Be aware what you are getting . 

Many asked me which master is good ?

Honestly i don't know . 
I have no power to read anyone's mind , who are more powerful , i cant see aura ..... 

But i know a Monk are not suppose to receive /ask money from anyone. 
So if you meet a monk that ask you for million million dollar for a tattoo , please say thanks and walk away . 

There is different type of monks. I got mind from orange robe monk.
Some of my friend get it from Ajarn with White Robe , Some get it from Master with Black Robe, Some get it from Master with Tiger skin Robe .... 

Some monk they been practice Buddhist magic for years and one day they wanna take off their robe and become "normal" person , it is possible too. ,mostly they will be wearing white color cloth after , practitioner are mostly in white. 

PS:  Monk are not allowed to keep hair too, if The One that perform sakyant to you is with hairs, he is not consider as a MONK.  

What's the different between Monk and other practitioner ?
Monk keep more or less 200 precepts 
Practitioner keep less 

If you are interested with the precepts they kept please visit : 

http://www.dhammawiki.com/index.php?title=227_bhikkhu_precepts

I am not pro with this better i speak less. But i always only receive blessing from yellow/orange/Maroon robe monks / white cloth practitioner. My advise to you is please do your research before you get yours sakyant.

Like any other religion , in one religion there is few books and different teaching.
I am Buddhism , and i am following The Theravada .

Should follow more to Sri Lanka .... after growing up as adult , i found myself more interested with the Thai way . But anyway any style , all still lead to good and love .


to be continue ....
 

Monday, August 19, 2013

BKK trip -Sakyant ( tattoo with magic )

Many years ago i already fancy to get a sakyant . Finally at my age of 30 + turning to 31 on coming nov , i got myself one . 

Reason for "being late" was because i need to get " approval " from my parents ... My father was always the stylo one, no problem ... tattoo as much as you like . My mom is the one that cant accept tattoo . Ok so skip skip skip ...finally i got my approval , well i know you might say i am above 21 ...should make my decision by my myself , Well to make the story short , i would just clarify as they gave me this body and i shall ask permission before i am going to make "damage" to it :) 

This trip was not in plan , just because AirAsia have promo ... oh i hate to fly with airasia ... i think has been 4-5 year did not fly with AirAsia ...Well ! Let just take the offer since all is flying with airasia and is only RM450++ . 

I am always a morning bird when i travel , i am ok with 4 hours sleep , and nap here there during the flights, train , bus , taxi .... anything i can sleep in anywhere . :) 

So awake at 6am , breakfast , then wake my gf up ..... is really difficult to get her off the bed :( 
Skip skip Skip .... Finally step out from ythe hotel lobby , around 7.30 AM 

I don't know everyone keep telling me is so difficult to find the temple i wanted to go, booking a tour cause 2500 B, is in a very small village , difficult to find ...and bla bla bla .

Well guest i am always the luck one ... we grab a taxi ( by meter ) he speak broken english ...who cares ! Me neither ! We have a fun chit chat . He was not sure too the temple , so we stoped and asked the local , when we are very close , again we are very luck , a policeman (on bike) pull over the taxi and asked where we want to go , and he pointed the way to the taxi driver ... from google internet , it say will cost about 1 hours to arrived the Temple . And we toke about 1 and 10 min more or less. 

Passing all this green padi field, remind me my Indonesia trip. Clear blue sky , very windy ! 
So we arrived , and the taxi driver offered to wait for us , but we refused cause we think we can get another very easy... 



Nothing impressive about the Wat. As usual no one speak english , but when you asked them sakyant they pointed the way to the "tattoo hall" .

So we meet some white , faster faster we grab him and asked how is the process ?  

1st you will see a stall ( just an umbrella + a table ) in front of the entrance selling offering . 





It cost only 75B. Pay & take off your shoe and enter to the tattoo hall . 

 So my friend too decide to get one sakyant ....


Women have to go in to another hall , so i saw no phone sign ...so i stop taking photo. 

Once i am back i started to Google the name of the monk that gave me my 1st sakyant .... My lord ! Once again I know i am so blessed . 

Without planning , appointment , arrangement all the way i meet another "famous" monk again . 
Luang Pi Nunn is one of the most famous Sak Yant tattoo artist in Thailand, and I was honored to received my 1st Sakyant from him.
I called this faith ! 

Kruba Aliyachart once told us , we must already know each other in one of our past life in "exchange" to meet again in this life. 

Check him out:
http://www.wat-bang-phra.com/women-tattoos.php

In the hall there is a offering plate , on the day during our visit the plate was gold in color (Yahoo!!)
Anyway there is a man pointed to the plate so we leave our offering on top of it , if you want you can always leave some donation on the plate.

As usual monk can not talk with women , neither touch , so i cant tell him which sakyant i want , and i wanted it invisible .... sitting in the hall ...very peace and calm.... what the fuck there is a black white cat keep surrounding me ... I HATE CAT !!!

Start to crown over my leg !Everyone in the hall looked at me ....Start wonder she must be having lot of "metta" but the answer was LOL i kept my leave over BBQ dry squid , i got from cowboy street yesterday inside my bag ! LOL guess she/he smell it and want a piece !!!


So i decide to let him choose the sakyant for me.
Is my turn , i give my respect , I approached , pull up my Tshirt -showing my ribs (right), and he shake his head .
Ok i turn my back facing him , there is 2 man next to me , they help to hold my hair all up ....i think he want to do place it on my neck ...   $%^&*    dont know what Lung Pi told the2 "assistant " they start to pull my Tshirt wide open and showed my shoulder.... luck i am wearing a super elastic -flexible T. And Lung Pi still shake his head .
So they asked me to turn again to my Left and finally he choose to place a Ha Teaw on my shoulder
Every thing is done in very "rude" LOL but is understandable , he cant touch women and talk to women , he can only move you by using other object ,but he is nice enough to give me extra "pillow" for me to rest my arm . He placed a thick layer of tissue on me back,  pressed and check the location of my "Wing" bone , after confirm the location .... 

There he started .... was shock pain ..1st "dot" drop on the bone .....

Ha Taew is a five row tattoo ...yeap you are right same as Angelina J. So all this line was poke on my bone.

Dont know how long it take but very soon i can feel that he is blowing the sakyant ....Yah that's the signer of over ... if you has been visiting temple for magic spell blessing you will know it is typical move , the monk will blow "life" in to the amulet (before i carry an amulet ) So he blow life to my sakyant ... seem few "blow" then wrap with water .... i know it is done ... at that moment i dont know how my Yant look like....

So give way , next is my BFF's turn . I went to the back and give 3 bounce to Lung Pi as thank you .

I did not stay in the waiting hall to wait for my BFF , i grab my bag and take out the BBQ squid and start searching the cat .... Wanna give it the squid .

Luang Phor Pern is the most famous monk of Wat Bang Phra, because he had a lot of magic power which he transfered in amulets and in Sak Yant Tattoos. 
 Luang Phor Pern died in 2002. His body were mummified and in a very holy part of the temple and lies in a glass coffin. 

I am not kidding you.... I stepped in i though is a real monk ... then i take a close look was wax, his body is placed at the glass with yellow gold back ground.  The wax is so alive.

When i was back in the hall there is a girl run to me and speaking in Thai to me $#%^&((&^.
Answered with big smile ... I am not Thai , Malaysian .

Really a lot misunderstood i am Thai and even a taxi driver want to start a fight with me just because i keep telling him i am not Thai .

There is lot of ignorance in the world , they are shallow , they judge you with their limited knowledge. My friend asked me to show him my passport ... i told my friend if someone only want to see what they want to see , they will not listen to you no matter what you showing them .
Been in and out Thailand for many years ... most will not argue with me when i told them i am Malaysian . Only few ignorance will try to make a fight .

Lets say i am Thai , i refused to admit myself as Thai after year living in oversea .
Or I am Mix but i dont speak Thai ... is still possible right ?
So what ? Is that your problem ? I don't come to understand why others try to make a fight just because i am telling you, you see me wrong. 

Ok , my BFF got her Sakyant .
And is only 10 plus am . We though to go and have lunch at Floating Market .... but seem too early . So we plan to go back BKK.

Now is our problem ... LOL cant get taxi as easy as i though LOL !!
Is ok, we walk ...few kilometer .... i am ok , we have water , not so hot , very windy ,lot of padi fields, I am not sure my BFF are ok or not :P

Always luck ... grab a taxi in a padi field LOL , he say BKK is too far for him , he will send us to a Station and we can get another taxi head to BKK . Ok perfecto !

Thai ppl are so friendly and helpful.


 Bye Wat Bang Phra , I know i will be back again.

Arrived BKK around 1pm plus ... grab lunch and Massage time !

For those who are interested with the detail such like address ...here you go 

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wat_Bang_Phra





Saturday, August 10, 2013

Blood donation 1

Writing a blog in hospital . 

Weirded feeling . 

As I am early for appointment , so I take a walk ... Hospital to me is a place I would not want to go if I can ... I don't pay visit even close friends admitted in hospital ... Not to my sister too ... Only visited my mom + my granny + my loved one 's granny :) ( really few in the list ) 

I remember when I was young I used to go in and out from hospitals , here there ,  visited lot of specialist , eyes , brain , heart ... Hahaha pity my mom :) anyway I grow up very health after . 

In my memory this is a place with lot of angel (nurse) some are very nice , sweet , some are fat , ugly , rude ... Some even scolded me :p 

Today step in to hospital for blood donation . I offered myself , to donate blood every 3 months .... Thanks my lord ... Sent me a company :) my BFF started her blood donation too... So today we are going together :) 

Was earlier for appointment , as usual my "bad habit" ...parked my car at the garden :) typical Chinese building , builder in square , in the middle they will make a garden . Toke a walk around the hospital . 


This is the front of the building , was the 1st building ... But now is leaved behind ... Still clean ... Looked like store room ;) 

I looked weirded :) walking around slow and snapping photos lol :) 


2nd building ...For The Chinese traditional medication .


This the latest one .

Waiting for my BFF to arrived I sit in the garden and write this blog . 

Ok here she is ... Continue later .... 

Blood donation 2

Today we are donating blood for "placement" 

One of our friend's father admired in hospital , for operation , used 6 pack of bloods....

They want placement , non of the family is health enough to give blood . So since we are doing ... Why not we replace for the father ? So we contacted with the hospital ,appointment set ,launched an "event " on FB ... Was quit disappointed with ppl around me :) only one volunteer ;) what kind of "friend" we have ... Yah whatever! 

So if you are donating at tung shin then go to the grey building - 6 floor :) 

Follow the signboard , knock the door ...


So the form is simple then usual ;) 

Forget to bring my "book "- the red book ;) anyway don't worry you can always update next time . Now a days everything is in digital ;) 


Nothing fancy ... LoL suddenly I think of horror movie lol ... 

So now is the turn of examination ,yahoo ! Iron increase from 12.8-13.1 healthier !!! 

In my previous blog written 12.5 is the min for female . 


Don't worry the nurse will do their work , all needle is totally new , and they throw away straight after using . 


Laying on the bed waiting to be "cucuk" (poke) lol.  I am afraid with needle .. Simple just don't look at it , turn your head to the other side . You won't know even it is done . 

So I go 1st ... BFF 2nd 


The " ballon " is hang under the bed ... You can't see it ...is good , so you dont feel scary as seeing that much of blood coming off for your body ;) 

So now she go and help my BFF ... Emnnn I did snap her photo but she won't want to be seen . So we skip ...

Yah I can still snap photos during all activities ;) multitask ;) 


This Kakak is so lovely ,we chitchat like friend and of cause gentle :) so at the end once it is done they will still take same sample . Kept in tub . Don't remember is it right ... But if I am not mistaken is for testing & experiment used . Yes I am science student but I drop bio , and pick up Lukisan Kejuruteraan (LK) so don't blame me if I don't understand bio ... And after all I did not continue with science but went into art ;) 

During the donation , something funny come in my mind ... If one day I became vampire , I don't need to kill around , just come here at night and rob some pints :) maybe get a job in national blood bank :)


So fast fast I snap without the nurse notice :) she went to take cotton :) 

Then she asked me would you like to take photo of your donation @@ I told her I snap already lol . But here us the better one ... I am O positive 




Trying to remove it ... Fuck ! Is painful ... Too hairy ! 


Leave you nothing but just a super small "hole" 

Hope more ppl would open them-self to blood donation . Is really shortage. especial in months like this . I shared a though with the nurse and she was shock too with it.

1st this is raya ... lot of long distant travel , lot of car accident 
2nd This is hungry ghost months , for Chinese ... You know I know la . (And I believe in it ) anyway was confirmed by her , very experience , many years in this sector , yes this is the months with lot of accident , blood is needed ! 

Our blood will be regenerate (renew) themselves every 42 days ... Don't be stingy to donate it . Take it as "used items" in exchange of life . Why not ? 

Happy blood donation ! 

Friday, August 2, 2013

MR GM

There is a guy , he used to work for the company my boss consulting . He is again back in the company . (without room this time )So he owned the room I am occupying before. 

I don't usually look my room when I leave . So this guy has been smoking in my room while I am away . I found ashtray on my side table , ... And the smell ! 

Fine , so I started to lock my door after I finished . 

And I told the tea lady do not let anyone occupy my room for smoke . I have sensitive nose , can't take it . So the activity stopped . 

As usual I love to open my door , cause I believe in open door policy . So this man has take advantage on it . 1st he always walk in and sit in front of me for no reason , and I don't have conversation at all with him . He said it is the most comfortable place to smoke cause only my room have window that can open . 

Well is ok , you can enjoy the window , I don't mind sharing . For those who work with me before knows . How much I needed window . LoL I did leave a job because my room doesn't have a window lol I know I am funny - but honestly it is one of the reason I leave :) 

So today he come in my office with "live" cigarette ! 
I am very quite in this office , I don't hang around with anyone in this office . I work like a ghost . No one know my schedule , when I am in / out . What projects I am on ..... 

So come back to the cigarette . My volcano just turned alive once he walk in . Holding his mobile ... Talking ... Seem I am transparent , everything seem normal, he just walking in his room , while talking on mobile , with cigarette "live". 

Waiting for him to finish his call . My turn to talk finally . 

Me: Mr ( I don't know his name lol ) do you aware this is my room ? 

H: Oh yah ! 

M: So ....

H: .... 

M: Well I though you are educated , how can you walk in to my room with cigarette on ? 

H: I thought u smoke . 

M: I don't . 

H: impossible ma , u don't looked like one . 

M: Doesnt matter I do or doesn't , it is for sure you are not allowed to come in, smoke without asking permission . 

H: Is ok , can open window . 

OMG !!! Can I slap u ? 

M: I would be happy if you can kill the cigarette now ! 

I really hate smoker !! 

Even my boss don't come in my room with cigarette on ! Wtf ! Mr . You can do anything you want in your room ! So work your ass to get a room ! I am not sharing mine with u ! 

I don't mind others to use my room in this office , cause I don't keep anything in . And I don't go in everyday . So is ok to share . 

And listen well , I did not put any title on my door doesn't mean my position is lower then you ! I am not in the organization chart doesn't mean I am under u . I don't have name card cause I don't need one . 
I know what I am , where I am , I am recognized by my works not my title . 

After all , no matter how and what ! You think you can run all over me ? 
In your dream Mr . GM ! 

Really hate ppl that think big about themselves . Well do as you like , non of my business , but don't ever try to step on my tail ! Yes u are correct ! I am a bitch ! 

I am so generous .You give me problem I will give u back X10 ! Watch your back ! I have plenty of buillets !